Ⓜ️ Model - Your Model of the World
Why?
- Understanding someone’s Model of the World makes it possible to effectively communicate with them.
- To understand and reshape how individuals perceive reality to achieve meaningful, lasting change. By identifying their core beliefs and values, clients can align their actions with their true goals, improve decision-making, and cultivate a fulfilling life.
So I want you to notice your model the world has been created by whatever was the source of love you crave most, and you tend to crave the love very often that isn't easily accessible, not always... I'm sure you loved them equally. You may have loved one more, but the love you craved, is the one that was less accessible. - Tony Robbins
What?
A "Model of the World" represents an individual's internal blueprint for life. It includes their values, beliefs, and experiences, shaping how they perceive themselves, others, and reality. This model determines the internal “rules” that drive behavior and emotions.
Your Source of Love is what shapes you and the model or blueprint of your world
Which components make up our model of the world?
- Core Beliefs & Habitual Questions
- Key Decisions & Life Values
- References & Emotional States
How have past experiences shaped your guiding principles?
What memories and emotions define your perspective?
7 Categories of Belief
There are 7 Categories of Belief that make up a person's Model of the World
- Global Beliefs
- Identity
- Primary Question
- Values
- Rules
- Vehicles
- Situation-Specific Beliefs
How?
To understand and reshape the Model of the World, coaches and individuals can explore the following questions:
- What were you rewarded for as a child?
- What were you punished for as a child?
- What animal best describes you?
By examining these, one can uncover deep-seated patterns and begin the process of transformation.
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How You SEE the World
Your perception of the world shapes your reality. A "Model of the World" is the internal framework that influences how you interpret experiences, relationships, and your surroundings. It defines your worldview, belief systems, and the mental map you use to navigate life. In essence, your model of the world determines how you see everything around you.
Our entire lives are shaped by this model—both the beautiful and the challenging aspects. It dictates our behaviors, expectations, and emotional responses. For example, if you were conditioned to always be a "kind" person, you may feel pressure to constantly uphold this standard, even when it’s exhausting.
There are things you may feel you cannot be:
- Lazy
- Relaxed
- Unproductive (or else you feel like you're failing)
And things you must be:
- Responsible
- Hardworking
- Accepted by others
- Having to always be a "kind" person... all the time.
When these expectations become rigid, they can create internal conflict.
Responsible in an unhelpful way can become burnout.
The point is our nervous system becomes conditioned and polarized to these patterns. Realizing how our body and nervous system is driven to get love or be "that person" that gets the love we crave.
Examples in the 4 Areas
Physical 🟧 (Zone of Tension)
- Identify Habits and Actions: What daily routines align with your values?
- Challenge Physical Rules: Are there self-imposed limitations based on past experiences?
- Practice New Actions: Develop small, achievable habits that reinforce positive change.
Intellectual 🟦 (Zone of Limiting Beliefs)
- Examine Core Beliefs: Identify whether your beliefs support or hinder growth.
- Reframe Limiting Beliefs: Challenge and replace restrictive thoughts with empowering ones.
- Set New Mental Standards: Align values with aspirations and adopt a growth mindset.
Social 🟢 (Zone of Trapped Emotions)
- Evaluate Relationships: Are your social interactions supportive or reinforcing negative patterns?
- Set Boundaries and Seek Allies: Surround yourself with people who align with your evolving beliefs.
- Engage in Community: Find groups that reinforce your values and personal development.
Spiritual 🔴 (Zone of Darkness & Confusion)
- Define Core Values: Identify what deeply matters to you and how it shapes your purpose.
- Connect with Purpose: Explore how your values contribute to a meaningful life.
- Align Actions with Higher Intentions: Ensure daily decisions resonate with your highest aspirations.
Resources:
- 📕 Book: Awaken the Giant Within
- 📕 Book: Relationship Breakthrough
- Core 200 Module 1 - Part 1 – The Secrets to Passionate Marriage
Discusses how early experiences shape relationship expectations. - Core 200 Module 5: Double Binds – Find Your True Passion: The Power of Honesty in Action
Explores how childhood experiences influence passions and worldview. - Core 200 Module 6 - Overcoming Abuse – What's Stopping You: Reconnecting With the Lover Inside
Examines how early love experiences create barriers in adult relationships. - Recovering a True Feminine Identity – Alisha
Discusses how childhood experiences shape identity and worldview. - Limiting Beliefs – Elizabeth
Explores how early experiences shape belief systems that impact decision-making.
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