Oct 13, 2024 9 min read Core 100

Core 100 Module 2 - Dana & Greg

Overcoming Intimacy Challenges through Self-Reflection and Positive Intentions

Finding Meaning and Purpose

Client Name: Dana and Greg

Problem Statement:

Dana and Greg are struggling with emotional and sexual intimacy in their marriage, which has led to years of frustration and disconnect. Despite their love for one another, they both harbor unresolved fears and unfulfilled desires, preventing them from fully connecting.

Background

Greg: Greg has struggled with intimacy throughout his life. In past relationships, he would shut down emotionally after a year, avoiding eye contact and physical closeness during intimate moments. This pattern continued into his marriage with Dana. He finds it challenging to stay present with her, often withdrawing emotionally after sex. This behavior stems from a deep-seated fear of vulnerability and a need for self-protection, which has impacted their relationship over the years. Greg acknowledges that he has difficulty expressing his feelings and is ready to confront these fears to create a deeper connection with Dana.

Dana: Dana has felt a growing sense of loneliness and emotional dissatisfaction in her marriage. For years, she has focused on what she wasn’t receiving from Greg, which left her feeling unfulfilled and resentful. While she often attempted to rekindle their intimacy by giving more, she would become frustrated when she didn’t receive the same energy in return. Dana recently realized that her focus on her unmet needs was contributing to their disconnect. She loves Greg deeply and is committed to understanding his struggles so they can rebuild their relationship together.