About Ben

There is no duty we so much underrate as the duty of being happy. By being happy we sow anonymous benefits upon the world.” - Robert Louis Stevenson

💡 About Me

Hi! I’m so glad you found your way here.

I’m not your typical coach. I’m the kind of guide who’s danced in the chaos, questioned everything, and finally learned to trust the deeper current running through it all. If you're here, chances are you're a fellow seeker—someone who’s felt the firehose of life and wondered, "Is there a pattern to this?" Spoiler: there is.

I was born in this world hardwired for innovation and soulful rebellion. I'm an ENFP—big-hearted, pattern-seeking, relentlessly curious, and endlessly in love with the idea that your life has meaning, on purpose.

🌀 My Story: From Overwhelm to Coherence

For years, I tried to follow other people’s advice. Career ladders. Productivity hacks. All the “right” steps. But it always left me burned out and half-alive. I didn’t want to just manage life—I wanted to create it.

I’ve worked for Fortune 500 companies, been a shadow IT guy, taught tech teams emotional intelligence, and helped several customers and coworkers untangle their systems. I’ve wrestled with chronic fatigue, struggled with emotional health, wandered through college programs, and questioned my worth in a world that rewards masks.

But every challenge led me somewhere deeper.

I found a pattern: a map for making sense of the noise.

⚡ The Struggles that Shaped Me

Better Husband, Father, Leader
I struggled deeply in my marriage and with fatherhood (hello, 3 adopted kids!). I tried fixing others before realizing the first thing to change and shift was myself. I discovered the power of internal coherence—emotional, mental, spiritual alignment—and the ripple effect it has on everything.
Digital Overwhelm & Knowledge Firehoses
I loved learning but felt crushed by the speed of information. I turned that overwhelm into flow—building systems, simplifying digital life, and mentoring others in Personal Knowledge Management tools like, Workflowy, and Notion.
Lost in Purpose, Found in Patterns
I didn’t find clarity from a guru. I found it through experimentation, failure, and rediscovering forgotten wisdom. I believe no one person has all the light—we’re meant to gather it together.

🌱 What I Offer Now: Coaching that Awakens Creation

Welcome to BenCassani.com —where life design meets deep pattern work.

I coach from a place of lived experience and spiritual insight. My process revolves around what I call the Light Codex —a way of living that integrates the Four Orders (Physical, Intellectual, Social-Emotional, Spiritual) to bring harmony and purpose to your life.

Whether you’re:

A leader who’s lost their center,
A sensitive soul trying to make sense of overwhelm,
Or someone who simply knows there’s more light to unlock within…

I’m here to walk with you—not as the expert of your life, but as a fellow traveler who has maps, flashlights, and a knack for pattern recognition.

Offers:

Coaching Transformation Package
Empathy Leverage Mini-Course
Rapid Notes - from Chaos too Digital Organization
Light Codex Spiritual Empowerment Course

🛠️ How I Coach

Creation Focused: You don’t just “fix” life. You create it. Intentionally.
Intuition-Led: I help you activate your own inner compass. That’s where the gold is.
Balance & Flow: I listen and lead. I give you structure but always leave room for soul.
Tangible Transformation: No fluff. Real shifts. Action steps. Coherence in the chaos.

I keep it simple: 4 Orders. 6 Elements. Universal Laws. And You.

🌟 The Vision

I believe we’re here to become energy-empowered beings who walk in love, coherence, and sovereign light. That means learning to feel deeply, think clearly, act wisely, and trust fiercely. It means no longer outsourcing your power—but reclaiming it, and then sharing it.

I’m building a community where we no longer chase gurus, but look within—and beside each other—for the light we carry.

🚪Ready to Begin?

This isn’t just about coaching. It’s about unlocking the patterns of your creation.
You don’t have to figure it all out alone. Let's step into the work—and the wonder—together.

📩 Reach out, book a session, or just say hello.
✨ You belong here. And your light is needed.

I love to Ski

I love Nature - My View from my Office

I love to Make Friends Everywhere

This is my friend Pepé. We met at a restaurant about four years ago, and even after all that time and losing touch, we still remembered each other’s names. When we ran into each other again by chance, it was pure joy—like reconnecting with an old friend you didn’t know you missed until that moment.